Bangin’ Pots & Pans

As I pull out the noisemakers for the New Year’s Eve countdown, I’m reminded of my mom banging pots and pans on the front porch as the ball dropped, new year after new year. In elementary school, it was funny! In middle school, it was embarrassing. And in high school and beyond, we didn’t witness it because we were partying elsewhere. 

As I get older, I realize my mom was onto something, because life just isn’t as fun if you’re not looking forward to something or celebrating. And what better date to do those things than New Year’s Eve?! 

Celebrate! Bring the noise! Get excited! Bang some pots and pans! 

Happy New Year!

Fill Your Hope Chest

Mom loved to redecorate, and rehab and rearrange the furniture, but her hope chest was one of the few pieces of furniture that was a fixture. It held our baby books, handmade family quilts and afghans, and her good silver. It wasn’t until I read a novel that described a woman’s hope chest that I actually put a meaning to the name. I just thought of it as a pretty storage trunk, but hope chests were essentially the beginning of a collection of things a woman would want to have once she became a wife, like a gown, dishes, table and bed linens, or family heirlooms. Women were manifesting their futures with a tangible vision board. If I build it, he will come. 

As for myself, my hope chest wouldn’t be filled with plates and silverware. It would have my passport and a carry-on,  packed and ready to go anywhere, at any time of year. There’d also be some of my daughter’s onsies that I saved, in hopes of seeing them on my granddaughter one day.

Hope and wait, hope and wait. 

The season of advent shares this theme, as Christians wait for the hope-filled arrival of Jesus. Many also hope for the arrival of Santa and whatever he’s got in his bag. Some of us are hoping and waiting for a fresh start in the new year. We hope and wait for a proposal, a job offer, an invitation, or an approval. We hope and wait for a letter or a phone call, or for someone to come back home. Some of us hope things stay the same, and some hope for change.

What I hope is that you hope for something; that you are filling your hope chest with beautiful designs for the future, and that peace, love, and joy surround you while you wait. 

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!